Desultorif (desultorif) wrote,

Dad update

First of all, thank you for all the messages.

After the phone threat last week, my dad went to the hospital.
They did multiple tests and gave him several prescriptions, or so my mum says.
Basically, he lacks a lot of vitamins, has high blood pressure, and...should he choose to continue the course he is on and not stop drinking...the doctors suggested that he will probably go the same way as his brother.

I guess all good news must come with bad news as well.

My mum is optimistic and I want to be... however, it is hard when the voice on the other end of the line sounds weaker than usual.
I hope he does take this opportunity to improve his health and put down the bottle, but my dad has said -on multiple occasions throughout my life- that he wants to die.

It's sad. All of my students know that my parents are fairly young (both are 47) and yet, I feel many of my students at age 60 plus are far more youthful.
It's like he just quit living over the last few years.

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    Still not ready to do or say much about the last month. I dread seeing anyone that hasn't already heard the news. It is just an awkward conversation…

  • Fuck you insurance and Stubborness!

    If it weren't for either of those shitty ass things, my dad would still be alive. GO TO HELL!

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    So. I've been thinking a lot about death. Not in an emo way, either. It crossed my mind, given recent circumstances. Over and over in my head, I…

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